radioactivesoup replied to your post:The weirdest thing happened to me the other…
Every once in a while I remember that Lady isn’t your given name and I am kind of shocked. Like, I know I shouldn’t be, but you’re just *Lady*. I’m sorry that you’re having to deal with this. :(
Haha, obviously the same thing happens to me! I visited a friend who had never called me anything but Lady and when she busted out the given name to get my attention, it was really weird sounding and strange. I’ve been signing art as L.Y.X. since I was 14, it just feels really natural.
It was so weird, it felt like I was getting called by a cutsey baby name, and I have no idea how to process feeling like this about it, because I really don’t have a cutsey baby-sounding name that ends in ‘ee’ or is really associated with frilly shit or anything.
Possibly it was just that the people we were hanging with were all her friends rather than mine, so I was putting up with a lot of things that make me angry and uncomfortable (unending jokes about sex, a baby, preoccupation with gyms and working out, more people than I thought were going to present so I wasn’t ready) for the sake of not being a gloomy guest, so it might have been that I just sort of felt them being sort of indulgently polite back and that’s why it felt so gross.
It’s so weird.