i get that a lot of parents have had a very traumatic past that translated into the actions they took and the things they said but like empathy and compassion for them can only go so far until you lose empathy and compassion for your own damn self like no kid signed up to become a scapegoat for their parents’ negativity so miss me with the “but they’re your father/mother” yes and that’s why they should’ve done BETTER! i am not the parent here! i got a life to live and shit to do and moments of happiness to seize so unless u wanna pay them to go to therapy nobody needs ur input
(via love-lays-bleeding)
