I told my coworker that I really wanted a baby girl, and she told me all about how raising a girl was so much harder. Because she had 3 boys and 1 girl, and her daughter wanted to be treated like her brothers. She told me all about how she forced her daughter to wear dresses, be pretty, wouldn’t let her cut her hair. She said that when the boys started to be involved in sports, that she did too. So she pushed her into dance classes. And as this went on, it was such a surreal moment. This is why we have so many unhappy, trans, nb teens on our hands. This poor girl.
She wanted to be a person but was forced to be a decoration.
Gender obsessed parents be like: it is so hard to raise a daughter, it is so difficult to completely destroy her personality and then fill her up with vanity and sexism
girlhood is being treated like a bonsai tree
(via love-lays-bleeding)
