I know it is what the younger set are doing now but man I’m still horrified when I see the limp wrist gesture

To a lesser extent also the casual tossing out of ‘fruity’ also keeps taking me by horrible surprise, but the limp wrist thing was only ever used as really malicious mocking when I was growing up. It took me a long time to realize this current use of it WASN’T a sudden wave of popular homophobia. Still makes me so uncomfortable, like I react with fear and concern immediately every time I see it.