You don’t HAVE to forgive people that have harmed you ever like that is the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard in my entire fucking life.
If YOU feel like you need to forgive somebody because that’s what you need to heal and move on from whatever they did, then go ahead and do it. But don’t you ever sit here and tell people that they must automatically forgive folks so they can be the bigger person.
Fuck. That. Shit.
Some people need to let the wound smooth over, some people want to grow a spike in its place. Don’t be telling spike people they need to do otherwise.
(via feltelures)
